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It’s all about the people who’s eyes light up when you talk about your dreams. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 10/10 recommend marrying one 🥰 Then making the rest your besties 👯‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Loved last night walking into a downtown LA fashion show after changing in parking lot 🤣 and having such a great night with these two in West Hollywood. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Chalk that ☝🏻 up to something I’ve never said before 🤣 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But I also love WHY we were even invited in the first place.🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You see @kayleigh.christina (in the blue) is one of my besties & also the co-Founder of a skincare company called Clearstem which was part of the swag bags at this event. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It sounds so cool (& totally was) but I love to pop the hood on what’s NOT pictured in developing a skincare line or any business because honestly, it’s not talked about enough on social media. 🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So what you don’t see? Moments along the way with Ugly cries of self doubt because it’s sometimes overwhelming to learn on the fly as an entrepreneur when things go wrong, and it’s on YOU to figure it out. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A crap ton of late nights, early mornings backed with hard freaking work that some people just won’t “get”. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & of course there’s always the wondering if it’s going to be worth it.....but CHOOSING to stay the course for the dream, for the IMPACT & because your WHOLE heart is in it. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So YES... the wins are so F’ing fun and holy crap I am proud of BOTH of these women I’m proud to call besties. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But if you reading this are in a moment of doubt on your dream.... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I want you to just give a reminder that it’s not always going to FEEL good, or LOOK pretty, but someone out there is counting on YOU to do that thing you feel called to do. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Do it for YOU but do it for HER too, you feel me? #bestiesfortheresties #clearstem
It’s not LIKE being a tad bit naggy AF and borderline psycho 🤣🤣I just didn’t know better🤣🤣🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Truthfully, once upon a time (5years ago) I tried to convince & basically DRAG a 183 pound man to be the person I wanted him to be. 😬 ⠀⠀ Spoiler alert 🚨 It didn’t work. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Like at all. 🤣🤣 ⠀ Because while I’m strong AF.😉💪🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I learned quickly, trying to PUSH someone who doesn’t want to be pushed, is quickly going to result in resentment on his part toward me. 😬 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So when I get questions like, “How did you “convince” Seena to work out with you everyday? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “How did you “make him” want to care about his personal growth like you do?” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I always answer I tried, & it didn’t work🤣 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 🤷🏼‍♀️ so I said “F it, I’ll just do me, I’ll Share WHY this is helping me & my excitement & hopefully he’ll come along soon” 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & honestly, I didn’t WANT to be the girlfriend fishing out snarky little comments like, “Oh Seena, don’t you care about working out and like your HEALTH?!” “Oh wow? You really just don’t care about growing as a person like I do?” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ While the intention was good, those questions are exhausting & pretty rude.🤦🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & deep down I knew as much as he loved me, this relationship would never work for the long haul w/ that attitude. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So instead I focused on the ONLY person who’s actions I can control; MY OWN🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I started waking up early to work out every morning & built a community around me to support me virtually👯‍♀️to make that happen CONSISTENTLY 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I started looping Seena in on things I was learning in podcasts that I thought he might be interested in. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & all of a sudden a switch 💡 happened as I was becoming the most ENERGETIC , CONFIDENT , PRODUCTIVE version of myself JUMPING out of bed like a damn ninja every morning 🤣 HE then DECIDED he wanted in on that secret sauce for HIMSELF.🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ oh & the fact that I now get to MARRY (EEK)💍 a huge brained super hot Persian dude obsessed with growth like me ; I’m not complaining😉 #engagedAF #enneagram7 #enneagram3
Over here mapping out goals I once PRETENDED I didn’t WANT because I MISSED THEM. 🤪 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Have you ever done that? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Actually CONVINCED yourself that you didn’t want a goal, because you MISSED it & were either: 1️⃣EMBARASSED that you “FAILED” forgetting that FAILURE gives you FEEDBACK & growth opportunities. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 2️⃣Felt like you LET PEOPLE DOWN & wanted to HIDE even though pulling yourself back up when you fail is MORE INSPIRING & IMPRESSIVE than just crushing all your goals. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 3️⃣Were so ANNOYED that you just decided it wouldn’t be FUN to pursue the goal anymore forgetting that DUH winning is fun, so that one’s just BS🤣🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Or 4️⃣ Decided missing a goal meant you needed to DOUBT your ABILITY & just THROW IN THE TOWEL because you thought it was EASIER then getting yourself back in the game? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Me too girl, me too. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Truth is, I think OFTEN we GLAMORIZE END GOALS forgetting that no matter what we will have CHALLENGES. 🙏🏻 Its not a NEGATIVE thing, it’s just part of life right?! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What I had to remind myself? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ GIRL, CHOOSE the BEST PROBLEMS with the most FULFILLING REWARD on the END. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When I first started my biz, I CHOSE the problem of GROWING this on the side with a full time job, having people that didn’t “GET” me, didn’t like WHAT or how OFTEN I posted on social media etc. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Because the ALTERNATIVE problem of wondering, “WHAT ELSE IS OUT THERE FOR ME, is this IT?” left me in ugly cries where I felt like I was ACTUALLY crazy on the reg. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & point blank; THAT sucked WORSE. 🤣 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & now, I want the PROBLEMS associated with LEVELING up. Hitting crazy goals in the company, ELEVATING myself, my MINDSET, my team & working my ASS OFF. 🤘🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Because the alternative?  Pretending I don’t want it or that I’m okay with “WHAT IF”. That just won’t work for me anymore. 🤘🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to get upset, doubt yourself or send angry AXE GIFS to your bestie sometimes to VENT. 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It just means you CHOSE these problems cuz you want the reward. So NO...You’re not struggling you’re just mid conquer🤘
ONE BILLION people who will OPEN Instagram monthly & CHOOSE to SCROLL to see other people’s HIGHLIGHT reel. 😱 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As someone who’s built an ENTIRE business through social media & met some of my BEST friends 👯through this app, I’m not going to NAYSAY Instagram. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This is our world in 2019, so we can say it sucks… or we can use it to SERVE US right? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So as we start a NEW WEEK I have a few ideas that have helped ME with COMPARISON that I wanted to share in case it could help you too. 💕 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #1- KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.  At the end of the day, if you know YOUR path & honor YOUR priorities🙏🏻, you’ll never have to DISPROVE or NAYSAY anothers path or waste time ENVYING them. 🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #2- USE HER EXPERIENCE as EVIDENCE it CAN BE DONE. If someone you follow has DONE something that you want to do, why not use that as EVIDENCE to support that it IS POSSIBLE rather than to pick at HER. 🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I CHOOSE to feel GRATITUDE toward women I admire for being the PROOF it CAN BE DONE. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #3- ASK BETTER QUESTIONS.  If you CATCH yourself COMPARING & then DOUBTING YOURSELF….ask yourself WHY? Is it because you are living below YOUR potential? 🤷🏼‍♀️ Then GIRLFRIEND- let’s DO something about it;INACTION is STILL an ACTION. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #4- SCHEDULE “UNPLUGGED”TIME.  It’s not HEALTHY to be plugged in 24/7. Coming from someone who makes multiple 6 figures a year EXCUSIVELY building a business on social media, you will not see me PHYSICALLY on my phone very much AT ALL. 🙏🏻 I’m intentional about when I’m off and when I’m on so I STAY SANE. 🤣 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #5- UNFOLLOW THE TRIGGER PEOPLE.  Just like we get to CONTROL our own THOUGHTS & ACTIONS. We get to CHOOSE who we follow. If someone is posting content TRIGGERS something in you, why the HELL would you keep her in your newsfeed? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ *UNFOLLOW* ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Remember girl…. the goal is to be happy in REAL life, not just for the internet.  So I say you do YOU boo & imma do me... & we’re going to make a damn TIDAL wave... you with me?
“Of COURSE I’m in but we OBVIOUSLY we have to get matching cool shirts”. 🤣 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ My response when one of my besties @kayleigh.christina said she’s obsessed with Blink 182 & wanted to go dance like we’re all 14 again at their concert....of course I’m in 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Also... a very #Enneagram7 response to basically anything, you feel me?🤣 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Cheers to Nostalgia (you have any favs girl?) & @blink182 maybe seeing this and bringing us on stage ya? 🤣🎉 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #80sbaby #90sbaby #blink182 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
“OH I JUST MANIFESTED my ENTIRE 6 FIGURE BUSINESS”. 🙄 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ NO. YOU. DID. NOT. LILLIAN. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It reminds me of how I want to JUMP THROUGH my TV & SHAKE celebrities when I hear them say, “You know….I’m just really great at balancing my priorities” when asked how they “DO IT ALL”. 🤮 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ GIRL… WE KNOW YOU HAVE A NANNY. AND A CHEF. & like 5 ASSISTANTS.  You are NOT a one woman show and don’t need to be!Why are we PRETENDING?! 🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But real talk? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I believe EVERYONE has their own WORK STYLES, GOALS & PRIORITIES for the long haul... But I have NEVER met someone accomplished MASSIVE goals without MASSIVE effort that felt EXTREMELY HOT MESS EXPRESS and VERY unbalanced… ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ESPECIALLY when they are FIRST starting. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But often people who have BUILT business’ don’t want to share it because either they FORGET what it was like to START. Or…. they think it doesn’t sound glamorous. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But it isn’t. 🤷🏼‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ My business is COMPLETELY different NOW 5 1/2 years in then it was year one building it on the side of my corporate job. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I have more CONFIDENCE that was built with CONSISTENCY over time so the people that don’t “GET IT” don’t bug me as much anymore or derail me.🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Now I have an assistant helping who helps SO much keep things ORGANIZED so I can focus on the parts I love most. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & I have more financial ability  to OUTSOURCE more. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But the BEGINNING…It’s REALLY hard & it WILL NOT feel ‘balanced. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s hard because it’s NEW.  It’s hard because people don’t “GET IT” even if YOU do.  It’s hard because it’s WORK and you don’t have PROOF that it will work. 🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It FEELS like you are pushing a Monster Truck tire up a hill & that momentum is TOUGH to build.  You doubt yourself a TON.  You wonder if it will be “worth it”. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But what I can tell you for sure? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ That GRIT earns you more FLOW. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ & a short term SACRIFICE of putting your blinders on & your WHOLE heart in & GOING for it might be a DOWN PAYMENT on one of the BIGGEST most JUICY ABUNDANT blessing of your life.🙏🏻 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Maybe it’s time to WOMAN UP yo ✌🏻you feel me?